Should never have pulled the goalie? Im not familiar with that euphamism

and 6 times out of seven it seals their loss anyways (see Avalanche this season). Basically all you can do on the boss thing is tell him/her what happened and assure them it wont be affecting you since this person is no longer in your life. Most bosses will be supportive and on your side, unless they happen to be total douche baggins.