This website has what you're looking for.
http://store.secondskinaudio.com/
Dynamat, fatmat, etc. doesn't really kill any sound but may stop a few rattles. My experience has been that small squares about the size of your hand are plenty to deaden vibration in a door.
I have wanted to pull my entire dash and carpet out and really cut the sounds with their luxury liner, but its a lot of work and its a decent amount of money for something that could work awesome or just slightly.