You will find that we bicker quite a bit here, but overall we have good info. Kevin and I often push each others buttons...
Kevin, I only saw the divorced on the web site, and the kits all included it I beleive.
I say a resounding no to Cat in the downpipe! Put it in the Mid pipe. it will likely require an extension on the second O2 sensor, but big deal.
I haven't see Nate's Bellmouth, but unless the bell extends past the first bend like the Cobb, I'm not convinced.
Cobb:
Oh, almost forgot. A good fitting non-flex up-pipe is as good if not better than a flex one IMHO. Everything involved is bolted to the engine, there is no need for flex, it just puts more load on the other flanges, like the heads to headers. I have a flex, but that was an emergency,, and I haven't had a good reason to change.