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k-dogg39 · 2008-02-06, 09:39 AM

Wow. Sorry to hear about this. Hope you get better quickly!

Kevin M · 2008-02-06, 09:59 AM

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Originally Posted by sperry

I didn't see the thread... but I'm curious how it's a "scam" if Phil still has his parts, and the other guy still has his money. That's not a scam, that's just a deal that fell through. Regardless of the extenuating circumstances, I can see why the guy might be upset but he shouldn't be angry and screaming "scammer!"

I can see why he yelled 'scammer' at first, but being dead is a pretty good excuse for not shipping something out on time. He should have forgiven and moved on.

doubleurx · 2008-02-06, 10:00 AM

Man Nasioc is pathetic. I hate that site.

Nick Koan · 2008-02-06, 10:03 AM

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Originally Posted by bushflyr

Are you just stupid or something? :confused: You screwed up. Even if you were in the ICU, you still didn't send him his stuff. Man up and send the parts. Who TF cares who has the money. It doesn't matter. Send the parts, post up a tracking number, then you'll be in the right. Till then you're just some whiny scammer with a sob picture.

Are you kidding me?

Sometimes people are too quick to call scammer there. While there probably are a fair amount of scammers, there doesn't seem to be any leniency for real problems and exceptions.

sperry · 2008-02-06, 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Nick Koan

Are you kidding me?

Sometimes people are too quick to call scammer there. While there probably are a fair amount of scammers, there doesn't seem to be any leniency for real problems and exceptions.

Link to the thread? I gotta read this.

Nick Koan · 2008-02-06, 10:36 AM

http://forums.nasioc.com/forums/show....php?t=1410892

100_Percent_Juice · 2008-02-06, 10:43 AM

It probably would have gone a little better is Dayofpain would have responded with a little more... how do you say... tact.

left footed whooten · 2008-02-06, 11:29 AM

^^^ I agree, but still. I'd at least give someone a half of a benefit of a doubt if they said they were in an ICU.

....you look like you could have been one of my patients. Glad you weren't, I don't like to have to jab a foley into someone I 'know'.

Know how lucky you are to be discharged from the ICU and seemingly 'normal'. I spy ventilator, NG, BIS monitor, and I suspect you were on a few titrated drips. Most folks don't recover from such a state. Glad you made it.
NASIOC can go molest collies

sperry · 2008-02-06, 11:32 AM

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Originally Posted by 100_Percent_Juice

It probably would have gone a little better is Dayofpain would have responded with a little more... how do you say... tact.

Agreed, a little tact would have gone a long way. But anyone that knows Phil knows he tends to bluntly call it as he sees it.

I can understand being pissed off when getting out of the hospital and having to deal with this crap and cutting loose in the thread. Was it a good move? Not really. But it's understandable.

dayofpain · 2008-02-06, 01:39 PM

i responded like that because of the emails he sent me. the other posts he had made. not to mention the countless pm's he sent me. i had also sold my prodrive seat at the same time. the other buyer was completely nice and content. i got back to him with "tact" and he got his seat. sure he was a little miffed it took so long but after explaining it to him he was 100% cool. this other guy just flipped shit and was a complete dickhead. i knew people would be upset. i tried to be nice and contact him through pm first but he kept posting on the thread. he kept being a dick through pm's. i guess i had enough when i finally noticed the thread was moved to scammer section.

sperry · 2008-02-06, 01:44 PM

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Originally Posted by dayofpain

i responded like that because of the emails he sent me. the other posts he had made. not to mention the countless pm's he sent me. i had also sold my prodrive seat at the same time. the other buyer was completely nice and content. i got back to him with "tact" and he got his seat. sure he was a little miffed it took so long but after explaining it to him he was 100% cool. this other guy just flipped shit and was a complete dickhead. i knew people would be upset. i tried to be nice and contact him through pm first but he kept posting on the thread. he kept being a dick through pm's. i guess i had enough when i finally noticed the thread was moved to scammer section.

Totally understandable IMO. The guy was out of line for not giving you the benefit of the doubt, especially considering the situation w/ the hospital plus having gotten his money back from PayPal.

At that point most people would just be happy they didn't get scammed for real and drop the issue.

JonnydaJibba · 2008-02-06, 03:30 PM

I can't stand NASIOC. What a load. That seriously makes me so angry. Lately it seems the only time I go there I get mad. I'm pretty much fed up with large boards in general. People that don't know each other act too stupid over the interweb.

tysonK · 2008-02-06, 03:35 PM

Well for every fucktard like that you got plenty of friends around here.

I hope you have a quick recovery.

dayofpain · 2008-02-06, 07:25 PM

i really appreciate everything you guys have said.

i cant wait to come back out. i miss my car now. i put my bride seat in the other day. a gias maziora. sooo much nicer than the prodrive.

knucklesplitter · 2008-02-06, 08:02 PM

I wish you a fast recovery, Phil. Glad you are getting back to normal so (relatively) quickly.

Reading the NASIOC thread it sounds like Paypal may be screwing up the buyer's knee-jerk claim. Or he could just be full of shit...

sperry · 2008-02-06, 08:06 PM

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Originally Posted by knucklesplitter

I wish you a fast recovery, Phil. Glad you are getting back to normal so (relatively) quickly.

Reading the NASIOC thread it sounds like Paypal may be screwing up the buyer's knee-jerk claim. Or he could just be full of shit...

I wouldn't put it past PayPal to hold the money for a week or so under the pretext of "investigation" just so they can make interest on it.

Figure with all the disputes filed, they probably can pull in $1M/year extra income off that move alone.

dayofpain · 2008-02-07, 12:23 AM

i guess the only thing i can say is, i dont have it anymore. and havent had it since like jan 9th. so i dont give a fuck.

JC · 2008-02-07, 03:47 PM

Glad you are ok now man. That's some scary stuff. Hopefully you'll come out better for the experience though.

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Originally Posted by 100_Percent_Juice

It probably would have gone a little better is Dayofpain would have responded with a little more... how do you say... tact.

You must not know Phil.

dknv · 2008-02-07, 05:52 PM

Wishing you a good continuing recovery. You're a miracle, considering all you went through (of what you remember). People who haven't been through the 'hospital experience' have no clue. If they are unlucky and end up in the same boat (ooh - is that an 'old people' expression?) someday they may have to go through such an experience and then their attitude will come back to haunt them...

When I was in for spinal surgery and had a complication, I was put on a demerol drip for awhile. While I was awake, Rachel told me later I sounded really out of it - and I don't even remember her being there and talking to her. I could hardly function. You have my empathy.

Kavid · 2008-02-12, 09:23 PM

Hey Phil! When I talked to you a little while ago, you said you had not doing so well, but damn! That pic says alot. If you need ANYTHING at all brotha, you have my number. Do not hesitate to call if you need ANYTHING! Can't wait til you are 100%. Give me a call when you are for sure! Take Care

2008-02-06, 10:00 AM	#28
doubleurx EJ205 Join Date: May 2004 Location: Truckee Posts: 1,948	Man Nasioc is pathetic. I hate that site. __________________ Does it have a motor..............Does it have a motor?

2008-02-06, 10:36 AM	#31
Nick Koan JDM Cowboy Real Name: Nick Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Somewhere Posts: 8,642 Car: 2015 Mazda 3	http://forums.nasioc.com/forums/show....php?t=1410892 __________________ While a standard engine is powered by a belt connected to the crankshaft, a turbo engine runs on its own exhaust steam, making it more energy efficient. -- CNN

2008-02-06, 10:43 AM	#32
100_Percent_Juice (40 percent vodka) Real Name: Joel Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Reno, NV Posts: 4,446 Car: 2004WRX Class: Baby-Hauler/GroceryGetter	It probably would have gone a little better is Dayofpain would have responded with a little more... how do you say... tact. __________________ "A power nap is when you sleep on someone who is weaker than you." - Dimitri Martin

2008-02-06, 11:29 AM	#33
left footed whooten EJ251 Real Name: Dylan Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Truckee Posts: 539 Car: 06 WRX wagon CGM Class: Stuck working weekends	^^^ I agree, but still. I'd at least give someone a half of a benefit of a doubt if they said they were in an ICU. ....you look like you could have been one of my patients. Glad you weren't, I don't like to have to jab a foley into someone I 'know'. Know how lucky you are to be discharged from the ICU and seemingly 'normal'. I spy ventilator, NG, BIS monitor, and I suspect you were on a few titrated drips. Most folks don't recover from such a state. Glad you made it. NASIOC can go molest collies __________________ I'd rather drink muddy water and sleep in a hollow log Last edited by left footed whooten; 2008-02-06 at 11:32 AM.

2008-02-06, 01:39 PM	#35
dayofpain R.I.P. Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: reno, nv Posts: 599 Car: 09 335xi silva	i responded like that because of the emails he sent me. the other posts he had made. not to mention the countless pm's he sent me. i had also sold my prodrive seat at the same time. the other buyer was completely nice and content. i got back to him with "tact" and he got his seat. sure he was a little miffed it took so long but after explaining it to him he was 100% cool. this other guy just flipped shit and was a complete dickhead. i knew people would be upset. i tried to be nice and contact him through pm first but he kept posting on the thread. he kept being a dick through pm's. i guess i had enough when i finally noticed the thread was moved to scammer section. __________________ DayOfPain "In order for me to get busy at maximum efficiency, i need a girl with a big 400 ton booty."

2008-02-06, 09:39 AM	#26
k-dogg39 Little Slugger Real Name: Kevin Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: North Lake Tahoe, NV Posts: 777 Car: 05 WRB STI Wagon/00 BRP GC Sedan Class: 39 TSM I'm not crazy, I'm just passionate!	Wow. Sorry to hear about this. Hope you get better quickly!

2008-02-06, 03:30 PM	#37
JonnydaJibba EJ207 Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Reno/Sparks, Nevada Posts: 3,482 Car: 2000 2.5RS Class: RestNPeace Master Slurper.	I can't stand NASIOC. What a load. That seriously makes me so angry. Lately it seems the only time I go there I get mad. I'm pretty much fed up with large boards in general. People that don't know each other act too stupid over the interweb. __________________ "Why do chicks tell you to call and then not answer....so gay." "Cuz girls are fags I dunno"

2008-02-06, 03:35 PM	#38
tysonK warehouse SECCS Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: SoCal... Posts: 6,253 Car: 04 Evo 99 Cadillac Class: street de le mod	Well for every fucktard like that you got plenty of friends around here. I hope you have a quick recovery. __________________ Anjali? Anjali?

2008-02-06, 07:25 PM	#39
dayofpain R.I.P. Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: reno, nv Posts: 599 Car: 09 335xi silva	i really appreciate everything you guys have said. i cant wait to come back out. i miss my car now. i put my bride seat in the other day. a gias maziora. sooo much nicer than the prodrive. __________________ DayOfPain "In order for me to get busy at maximum efficiency, i need a girl with a big 400 ton booty."

2008-02-06, 08:02 PM	#40
knucklesplitter EJ205 Real Name: Matt Taylor Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Cousin-Fck, Carolina Posts: 1,475 Wish in one hand and sht in the other...	I wish you a fast recovery, Phil. Glad you are getting back to normal so (relatively) quickly. Reading the NASIOC thread it sounds like Paypal may be screwing up the buyer's knee-jerk claim. Or he could just be full of shit...

2008-02-07, 12:23 AM	#42
dayofpain R.I.P. Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: reno, nv Posts: 599 Car: 09 335xi silva	i guess the only thing i can say is, i dont have it anymore. and havent had it since like jan 9th. so i dont give a fuck. __________________ DayOfPain "In order for me to get busy at maximum efficiency, i need a girl with a big 400 ton booty."

2008-02-07, 05:52 PM	#44
dknv EJ207 Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: 39n53, 119w90 Posts: 2,698 Car: RX-8 Class: CS maybe	Wishing you a good continuing recovery. You're a miracle, considering all you went through (of what you remember). People who haven't been through the 'hospital experience' have no clue. If they are unlucky and end up in the same boat (ooh - is that an 'old people' expression?) someday they may have to go through such an experience and then their attitude will come back to haunt them... When I was in for spinal surgery and had a complication, I was put on a demerol drip for awhile. While I was awake, Rachel told me later I sounded really out of it - and I don't even remember her being there and talking to her. I could hardly function. You have my empathy.

2008-02-12, 09:23 PM	#45
Kavid EJ22 Real Name: David Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Reno, NV Posts: 156 Car: 09 Impreza 2.5i Sedan No Turbo I Want My WRX Back!	Hey Phil! When I talked to you a little while ago, you said you had not doing so well, but damn! That pic says alot. If you need ANYTHING at all brotha, you have my number. Do not hesitate to call if you need ANYTHING! Can't wait til you are 100%. Give me a call when you are for sure! Take Care __________________ No Regrets, Live Life